Let Go of the Timelines—Your Life is Unfolding Exactly as It Should

I work with so many people who come to me feeling worried or stuck because they haven’t hit certain milestones by a specific age. I hear it all the time—people in their 30s wondering why they’re not married yet, people in their 40s feeling anxious about not having children, or others feeling like they’ve missed out on their dream job or purpose in life.

And I get it, because I’ve felt that way too.

When I was 22, I was working in a coffee shop, and that same year I got married. By 24, I’d moved abroad with my husband, thinking I’d ticked all the boxes—I was married, living in another country, and it felt like life was moving in the right direction. But by 25, I was divorced. We didn’t even make it to three years of marriage. I had no kids, no job, and when I moved back home from abroad at 26, I felt like I was starting over with nothing. Everything I thought I wanted had fallen apart, and I truly believed I’d lost my chance at the life I dreamed of.

But here’s the thing—my life hadn’t even really started yet.

At 26, I met my partner, and together we’ve had two beautiful children. When my son was six months old, I started my spiritual business—doing Tarot readings, manifestation work, Reiki, and more. That was four years ago, and that’s when my dream job truly began.

Looking back now, I realise that what felt like the end was actually the beginning of the life I was meant to have.

And that’s why I always remind the people I work with: life doesn’t follow a set timeline. Just because something hasn’t happened by a certain age doesn’t mean it won’t—or that your life isn’t on track. Even if you do hit those milestones early, like getting married at 20, it doesn’t mean you’re sorted. Life can flip in an instant. I got married young, but I was divorced three years later. Things change. Everything changes.

You can’t predict how life will unfold, and that’s okay. Your journey is unique to you, and it’s unfolding exactly as it should. Whether you find love later in life, start a family in your 40s, or discover your passion in your 50s, there’s no “right” time for anything.

Let go of the timelines. Release the pressure. Trust your path, because you never know what’s waiting for you just around the corner.

If you’re ready to start embracing your unique journey and let go of the pressure to follow a specific timeline, I’d love to help you.

I’ve created a 6-week series (Which can be 100% altered and personalised) it’s called “Embrace Your Unique Journey” to support you in letting go of those limiting beliefs and fears that are holding you back. You’ll work on shifting your mindset and trusting that everything is unfolding as it should.


Here’s what the 6-week series looks like:

Week 1: Trusting Your Path – Embracing Where You Are Now
Learn how to accept where you are in your journey, recognising that your path is unique to you and there’s no rush.

Week 2: Releasing Limiting Beliefs – Letting Go of Age-Related Fears
This week, we’ll work on releasing the beliefs that hold you back from believing in your potential, no matter your age or where you are in life.

Week 3: Shifting Mindset – Creating Space for New Possibilities
Focus on shifting your mindset from self-doubt to self-belief, and learn how to create space for new opportunities that align with your journey.

Week 4: Embracing Change – Navigating Life’s Unexpected Twists
Change is inevitable. This week, we’ll work on embracing change with an open heart, letting go of expectations, and being open to what’s next.

Week 5: Building Patience – Trusting in Divine Timing
Learn to have patience with yourself and trust that everything will unfold as it should, at the right time for you.

Week 6: Empowering Yourself – Moving Forward with Confidence
By the end of the series, you’ll feel empowered to take inspired action on your path, trusting that your journey is unfolding exactly as it’s meant to.


If you’re ready to embrace your unique journey and stop worrying about where you “should” be in life, this 6-week series is designed just for you. Let’s work together to release the limiting beliefs holding you back and empower you to take inspired action toward your dreams—no matter your age, no matter your timeline.

Join me today, and start your journey of self-empowerment and trust in your path.

XO, Leanne


Contact me to get started!

Email: justbe@leanneblackburn.uk

Whatsapp: https://wa.me/447954077627

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